Having a buddy makes all the difference

Published on: 07/20/2018

I opened my eyes a crack. The light was streaming into my basement window and I could guess that even though my body felt like it needed at least another hour my alarm would be going off momentarily.

I closed my eyes and thought about turning it off. I could have that extra hour of sleep if I really wanted. It was 6:30, I could sleep until 7:30 and easily get where I needed to be by 9. I could do it, I knew I could, but…I had agreed to do this. I had agreed to wake up and do 6 miles with my running buddy and I couldn’t let them down.


100% would not have run this freezing cold Turkey Trot if it weren’t for my running buddy. I was only 4-days post Marathon and the sub-25 temperatures did not seem inviting…but we did it! And ended miling

I kept my eyes closed for one more second. Waiting to here my self phone beep and a text message come in, the tell-tale sign of an early morning run cancellation. Instead of a please beep, one second later my self phone was blaring with the all-too-familiar, earth-shattering alarm tone. It was time.

I can’t count the number of times having a running buddy has been the added push I needed to stay on track with my training plan, to wake up at insanely early hours (thank you PGRC for your 5:30am starts) or to get me out in insane weather (like 100+ degrees….thanks David.)

There are always a million excuses buzzing around in my head for why I shouldn’t run, why I deserve a day off, why slowing down is okay. And taking a day off and slowing down are O.K. once in a while, but if you have goals to accomplish then you’ll really regret those extra hours of sleep when race day comes.

I have been lucky enough to almost always have at least one reliable running buddy nearby (I wish I could name all the wonderful friends and family members who have joined me for countless runs over the years, but as I said the number is countless and we’d be here all day) – but last August when I first moved to Maryland that wasn’t the case. I knew nobody who ran my distance and pace within 5 hours. But I had a race – the Hartford Half and the Philadelphia Marathon – that I was already registered for. I had a goal and without my usual running buddies I was longing for some accountability when it came to my training.

Thankfully, although my buddies were far away and I was only slowly acquiring new ones, we live in the era of social media. Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, good “old-fashioned” texts and phone calls allowed me to harness some of that accountability and buddy-feel back.


I found sending photos the night before a long run, hard workout or race gave me the buddy-accountability and the motivation I needed to get me out on the road.

This morning I woke up 10 minutes before my alarm and thought about my alternatives: running 9 miles ixn a beautiful 62F or sleeping an extra hour and waiting to run in the heat…or just not running at all? I hadn’t told anyone that I would be running in the morning, I didn’t have anyone to meet up with…

I slept until 7a.m. Maybe 7:05 a.m. Maybe.

Now it is 4:09 p.m. The temperature is starting to cool off a little (I hope) and the Marine Corps Marathon in October is suddenly seeming very soon. I’ve decided that logging my planned 9 mile tempo is probably a necessity.

I should probably stop writing and lace up my shoes. I should and now, I feel like I might actually do it thanks to you.

So, thank you readers for being my accountability-buddy today. If you ever feel like a you need an added push to get you through or to a workout find a buddy – either in person or virtual – and let them know your plan. Have them hold you accountable, and then maybe that goal of yours will seem that much closer.

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